Disappointment

Hmmm....First and foremost, do forgive me for the lack of updates on the blog. I have been preoccupied with Easter holiday and so on so I really couldn't find any spare time to write anything.

The reason I wrote this post is to express my disappointment with one of my closest friend over here. To say the least, she is my closest friend here and I could say now that she is one of my best friend. I'm very disappointed with her because of her lack of consideration in making decisions in her life. To tell you the truth, she talked to me a lot on how to make decisions in my life regarding studies, friendships, love, etc. But of all the decisions tat she has made before, this one particular decision made me feel very angry with her. She started to date this one guy, A.

I know A as a friend and as a football teammate here in Cardiff. I actually have no grudges against him or whatsoever, but it somehow struck me when she told me about them dating each other. The reason why I was angry ad disappointed in her is that she decided to date on a short-term basis. We have only 2 months before we start our holiday and she has already decided that she and A will be separated during the summer because she is going back to Malaysia and he is not. She said that she enjoys the time that they spend together and she enjoys the fact that she likes him and vice versa. She told me that the 'burn' will definitely happened some time during the summer and she said that it sucks. But if so, why the hell did she insist on continuing this sort of relationship?

She is now going to be 20 later this year and he is going to be 22 or 23. Both of them should know that this is not high school anymore and so should think for the long-term. She said it is just for fun -making out with each other (or going to 1st base). For the intelligence level that she has, this is very stupid, and same goes to A. He is old enough not to play this kind of game anymore. Id breaking up is inevitable, then why insist on continuing? Later when they break up, she will be all emo and stuff. And then, it starts again with dating another guy on a short-term basis and get 'burnt' again. If an idea of fun is the one that will end in a heartbreak, why play the game?

Also, I question about their relationship. What will they get out of this? She said she doesn't know but she is only doing it for fun for the short term. I mean, how stupid can you be? She once said to me that she doesn't date smokers, hell, when we were in Starbucks before the movie, he came and smoked RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER and she didn't say a single word of protest or whatsoever. All her principles of life has all been destroyed because of him. And they have only known each other for less than 3 months. They started dating a couple of weeks ago and she already sept over at his place (only God knows what happened there) and they have made out tons of times. I honestly think before the term ends, something will happen that will make her regret her whole life, and as a friend, I have to be there but at the same time, it serves her right. right now, I have absolutely no intention to either stop them or to nag them. All I can do is sit back and watch this thing fail. Mark my words, she will be sent reeling after all this.

Godspeed