Hey ya,
Now I know that all of you have already read about this topic loads of time, but what the hell, I'm going to write again. The idea came up while I was chatting with someone in a land far far away (well, not so far la, actually =P) and she suggested that I write what are my feelings towards this, etc.
I honestly don't know what to write. I can't seem to think straight whenever I have other things going on, be it good or bad. Say, for example, I have a crush on someone. I'll keep thinking about her even though I'm doing something else. Or, say I just got my results and it didn't go well as I would have like, I will be sulking in my room for days with only meals, showers, and prayers as exceptions. That is why, my fellow readers, my blog is not updated everyday, and it can become stagnant and lifeless for a while. It means that I have something going on in my head or in my schedule that will keep me off the keyboard, mouse and the world without borders.
Oh, I'm drifted from my intended-topic. Hmm...what am I feeling right now about this? I still believe that love is something best unsaid by the the two folds of heart i.e. it doesn't matter if you decided to date her but not taking it further. It will only make things more and more complicated should there be any advancement in relationship status. But both of the lovebirds must decide to keep it 'simple'. There are times when one person thought they are keeping it simple, while the other is keeping her hopes up for a proposal to be in a relationship. If this happens, then bye-bye to keeping it simple and a relationship. As for me, I don't mind either. As a person, I would be delighted to know that I am in a relationship and I have someone that I care and cares for me as well. On the other hand, it would scare the shit out of me thinking about marriages and kids. Hence, the having someone that you care and vice versa but not in a relationship. But it kills me whenever it stops so abruptly when the other half loves somebody else and I can't do anything since, well, I am not IN A RELATIONSHIP.
So it all depends on the two parts of equation to decide which is best to make it balanced. As long as there is faith by the both of them towards each other, then they can stay strong, be in officially in a relationship or just keeping it plain simple. Faith and understanding play a big part in shaping one's love life and the players need all of these, among other things, to keep ahead of the game or it is game over...
Cheerio...
p/s: To someone reading this, shouldn't you be preparing for something? =P
